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When “Fine” Isn’t Good Enough: Why Sobriety Is About Feeling Well
We live in a culture where everyone is “fine. ”You hear it in offices on Monday mornings, muttered over instant coffee. You hear it outside the school gates, disguised in jokes about needing wine to get through bedtime. You hear it at parties where people hold a prosecco flute like a permission slip. “I’m fine. Honestly. I’m fine.” But “fine” has become a socially acceptable mask — not a meaningful measure of how we’re actually doing. It’s the polite shorthand we use to avoid
Jenny Downs
Nov 203 min read


Why It’s Actually Wonderful to Be Sober at Christmas
For decades, Christmas has been our most socially sanctioned excuse to overindulge. The nation’s festive run-in is set to the clink of glasses and the rustle of bottle bags. We drink to celebrate, to unwind, to get through awkward family dinners, to survive office parties, to toast the New Year. Alcohol is everywhere — so woven into the fabric of December that it feels almost rebellious to opt out. Yet more and more people are quietly doing just that. And what they’re finding
Jenny Downs
Nov 164 min read


Why do we call it a mid life crisis? Is it not the period of enlightenment?
Somewhere along the way, society decided that when you hit your forties or fifties, you’re meant to fall apart. Buy the motorbike. Quit the job. Panic about your reflection. Call it a midlife crisis and hope no one notices the quiet feeling of discontent. But what if this period of life isn’t a crisis at all? What if it’s the moment you finally wake up? For so many of us, midlife is not about losing our way — it’s about finding our truth. It’s the slow, subtle recognition tha
Jenny Downs
Nov 103 min read


10 Tips for a Successful Sober October
Taking on the Sober October challenge is a fantastic way to reset your relationship with alcohol, boost your wellbeing, and prove to...
Jenny Downs
Sep 252 min read


Getting Started with Sober October – Your First Week Checklist
Taking a month off alcohol can feel exciting, empowering, and maybe a little daunting too. The first week is about setting yourself up...
Jenny Downs
Sep 252 min read


The “Let Them” Theory: What It Means When Your Partner Still Drinks
When people decide to stop drinking, they often imagine it as a personal choice – a private act of self-care and self-preservation. And...
Jenny Downs
Sep 253 min read


Is Alcohol So Ingrained in Our Society That We Think We Can’t Live Without It?
Walk down any British high street on a Friday evening and the signs are hard to miss: pubs spilling onto pavements, supermarket aisles...
Jenny Downs
Sep 152 min read


The Importance of Building Sober Connections
In the UK, drinking has long been woven into the fabric of social life — the after-work pint, the bottomless brunch, the family party...
Jenny Downs
Sep 143 min read


🌿 How to Say No Without Over-Explaining
A Guide for Sober Living One of the biggest challenges of sobriety – especially if you’re just starting your journey – is navigating...
Jenny Downs
Sep 132 min read


🎃Your Guide to Starting Sober October
🌟Simple Strategies for Success Sober October is just around the corner 🍂 – a month-long challenge that invites you to step back from...
Jenny Downs
Sep 132 min read


Sober Essex - A bit about us....
Are you based in Essex, UK, and looking for a supportive community to aid you on your sobriety journey? Look no further than Sober Essex...
Jenny Downs
Apr 161 min read


Find Sobriety and Connection with Sober Essex
Choosing sobriety is one of the most powerful and life-affirming decisions you can make. But doing it alone? That’s a whole different...
Jenny Downs
Apr 162 min read


How to Join Sober Essex for Social Events and Support
How to Join Sober Essex for Social Events and Support Looking to meet like-minded people, stay motivated in your sobriety, and have fun...
Jenny Downs
Apr 162 min read
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